By Evelyn Oteng-Pabi http://pastexotic.wordpress.com
My passion, my purpose and my inspiration is for the children, the youth. The ones who will come after me, be the ones to learn from me, grow from me. When i look at my life and those of my friends and colleagues that surround me, I ask myself if we are really in a position to help and where does that help start, what are we doing? At the age of 2 or 3, that is when most of us might teach our children to read…we start them off with the ABC’s. A is for Apple, B is for Balloons, C is for Cat. But who really cares about that? II mean, yes that is important and I’m super glad that the apple, balloon and cat all can co-exist, but what about your child’s potential if when he goes to school he’s not relating to the top letter grades, but bringing home an F for FAIL. It makes me S for sad, because if you don’t educate your child properly, not just to read but to believe in their potential…the A is for apple could later mean that Apple that doesn’t fall far from the tree, the B will equate to Being a misfit in society, and the C for caring about nobody else but yourself. Don’t get me wrong…reading is important, but I think we should start from scratch and teach our young ones’ a different kind of ABC…not just about words, but the power of them and what they can mean.
Now…
THE ABC’S OF BEING THE BEST I CAN BE
A IS FORÂ ACCEPTING NOTHING BUT MY BEST
B IS FORÂ BELIEVING IN MYSELF
C IS FORÂ CREATING OPPORTUNITIES FORÂ MYSELF
D IS FOR DEVELOPING GOOD HABITS
E IS FORÂ ELEVATING MYSELF AND OTHERS
F IS FORÂ FORTITUDE DURING MY MOST DIFFICULT TIMES
G IS FORÂ GODS GRACE THAT KEEPS ME CARRYING ON
H IS FORÂ HELPING THOSE LESS FORTUNATE THAN I
I IS FOR DOING EVERYTHING WITHÂ INTENTION
J IS FORÂ JUST DOING IT, WHEN THE WORLD SAYS NO
K IS FORÂ KINDNESS THAT I CAN PASS AROUND
L IS FOR THEÂ LEADER I HOPE TO BECOME, IT IS ALSO FOR THEÂ LOVE I SHOULD HAVE FOR MY NEIGHBOR
M IS FORÂ MAKING THE MOST OF MY CIRCUMSTANCE, RATHER THAN A PRODUCT OR NEGATIVE STATISTIC
N IS FOR SAYINGÂ NO TO THOSE WHO WANT TO HOLD ME BACK
O IS FORÂ OVERCOMING OBSTACLES
P IS FOR DOING EVERYTHING WITHÂ PURPOSE ANDÂ PRAYER
Q IS FOR KNOWING THAT NO MATTER WHAT IÂ QUALIFY
R IS FORÂ REFUSING TO QUIT ANDÂ RESPECT, FOR MYSELF AND OTHERS
S IS FORÂ SHARING WHAT I HAVE WITH OTHERS
T IS FORÂ TAKING THE TIME, TO DO IT RIGHT THE FIRST TIME
U IS FORÂ UNDERSTANDING IF I FAIL, TO PICK MYSELF UP AND TRY AGAIN
V IS FORÂ VALUING MY WORTH AND MY EFFORTS AND THE EFFORTS OF THOSE AROUND ME
W IS FORÂ WORKING HARD ANDÂ WAITING PATIENTLY THAT MY TIME WILL ALSO COME
X IS FOR CHOOSING TOÂ X OUT AND ELIMINATE THE WORDS: FEAR, FAILURE, AND IMPOSSIBLE OUT OF MY LIFE
Y IS FOR KNOWING THATÂ YOU AND I ARE A TEAM
Z IS FOR THE ZERO TOLERANCE OF OTHERS TELLING ME WHAT I AM CAPABLE OF DOING, BECAUSE THEY DON’T SEE THE POTENTIAL GOD SEES IN ME
Now I know my ABC’s, hopefully next time our youth will sing with me, and take a step greater and live these words with me.
Living soulfully, naturally and beautifully
Eve Past-Exotic
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